Oxytocin is the bonding hormone, cuddle hormone and loving hormone.
When one person touches the other person of opposite sex like when you hug and kiss again and again especially when orgasm, there is big surge of oxytocin which acts in the CNS (central nervous system) of the neuron and develop emotional bonding between the human beings. That is why it is called bonding hormone.
Why womens are always complaining about their male partner that they are not loyal to their wife?
Do you think oxytocin hormone present in male body? What oxytocin doing in male body?
Yes oxytocin hormone is present in less amount for n male as compared to female. We thanks nature that men are with less oxytocin hormone and this will remain at higher level from 6 month to 2 years otherwise who will work for their family outside home living away from their wife it may be problematic. When you see a newly married couple they always want to remains with each other and stay almost for few days and get pregnant within 6 month after marriage or in some cases even before.
Why female thinks that my partner is not loyal?
Usually female releases more and more oxytocin as compared to male that’s why females are more strongly bonded to a man as compared to male partner. Since male releases less oxytocin, male partner bonded weakly and rift away easily their female partner. In this case women think why man are not loyal to their partner.
Female do not bonded quickly but once they bonded they remains bonded strongly. Thy take time and can attract others quickly.
Why early day of love is more and then decreases after passing few day after marriage? Which hormone is responsible for this?
What we called something love in beginning stage. In early days, partners may involved more in love and suddenly changing the whole things. This depends not on oxytocin but depends on Sodanine, Dopamine, and norepinephrin. They supress area of brain concerned with analysis and enhance the area concerned with emotion.
After the beginning of love, early phase of love dominates by dopamine, sodanine, and norepinephrine. But as the time passes, the purpose of these three hormones to keep male and female bonded for enough time until female gets pregnant and bear baby.
After getting pregnant, the male who cannot control himself want to be like early days of love and try to experience their love with other women but still he loves his wife because of the bonding between them due to oxytocin hormone.
Why nature planned that these three excitatory hormone surge goes down after sometimes?
Because in early love , sodanine, dopamine and norepinephrine is there, most of the partner focus on their relationship and so much focus on you beloved that many important things in your life are not doing or they are disrupted. But if you continue like that the life will disrupted.
This magical moment usually remains only for 6 month to 2 years depending upon the couple and then spell break and oxytocin come to hold partner together.
When oxytocin became high then a man can go outside and start working and woman can focus on the baby. In most of the couple, these happens only once or twice between a couple. But only 10% couple get a chance again and again. If most of the couple get this chance the human population will increase more and more rapidly.
Why most of the female always complaining that my husband is not loving, loyal and not giving me enough time as before pregnancy?
When female gets pregnant, the level of oxytocin is more in both partner. female partner remains engage in taking care of their developing child but what man do? where he spell their excitement of sex. You can only involved in romance with your female partner but cannot perform sex with her. At that time, man go outside and look after where they can get their spell again and again. At that situation what women do? In this situation every women complain with their husband that those are the days you love me much more and bring flowers and gifts for me but now-a-days you aren’t.
Summary of the whole blog is:
Passionate love depends on Dopamine, Sodamine, and norepinephrine. With the time, converted into affectionate love. Passion is finish between husband and wife and affection is develop and continue.
