Hormone of your interest and it’s control on the body.

Few lines for all youngsters, for their parents and also for those who are going to become a parent:
Your whole body is controlled by the level of hormone how much you need to control yourself. These all hormone levels are under the control of the hypothalamus. Your hypothalamus stimulates you in which types of secretion you need. All these needs depend upon you what are your interest, what your subconscious mind wants. When you do something of interest there is the formation of specific chemical packets inside your brain that force you to do more, again and again, the same things because they make you feel very happy. That’s why our minds always force us to get involved in the work of our interest.
These all chemical behaviour is under the hypothalamus. But this hypothalamus is also under the control of our thought processes, our emotions, information, stored data inside our brain. These all are controlled by a system called the limbic system.
This limbic system is tuned by you just like the setting of your mobile phone. Your phone shows what you saved in, how you tuned your mobile setting at initial and shows only when you want. In similar ways, your subconscious mind consists of data from birth to now. But these all are remains as in recycled bin because you once get the data but never revised again. That’s why these chemical packets get destroyed but their fingerprint remains in your bin. When you apply deep thought your mind search for those chemical packets and again starts forming these packets and hence your destroyed thoughts and mind data get restored because you once get interested in that.
Your mind always works how you tuned and all these tunes start working by birth and get activated along with the development of erogenous zones.
When a youngster falling into someone love their parents thinks he/she get diverted from their path but they never try to find the region behind this. In this condition not only your child is accused and responsible but you also equal partner for their unusual behaviour because when your child is under the age of 6 years, his/her conscious mind does not get satisfied with what is right and what is wrong and get stuck in that specific developmental stage. A parent always thinks he/she is wrong but never try to know the reason behind this, why is/she is showing this type of behaviour. Your child is not always wrong but sometimes you are more than him. In this situation, he/she is only trying to satisfy the desire that seeks pleasure because he/she gets fixated in the phallic stage of psychosocial development.
If a child is fixated in the phallic stage, their primary focus of the libido is on the genital and the thoughts of this satisfaction always wandering in their mind.
When they are once physically involved with their opposite-sex partner and after that their interest in love and affection goes down slowly because getting satisfied.
This incident happens with most of the children. You should clarify his/her doubt of the phallic stage. This is the only way to get out of this otherwise there is a 100% possibility that your child must get involved in love and affection.
But sometimes it’s not happening because some persons can control all hormonal action and fixated growth processes because of their control on their limbic system.
You should stay with your child until your child grows up to 6 years (atleast up to 3 years) because the male child gets satisfied with the Oedipus complex from their father and female children get satisfied with the Electra complex from their mother. But in most, cases penis envy is never fully resolved and that all girls remain fixated on the phallic stage. That’s why they want a male partner to satisfy his desire and most of the time there is possibility that girls show more attraction towards opposite sex than a boys. They want to resolved penis envy as soon as possible but because of this society they didn’t do that because in our society sex is taboo and this taboo word of society decides your nature how and what type of person you are. Just come out of this thoughts and mentality and try to understand why these all events are dominant in youngster. The most difficult and challenging time for youngsters are between puberty and their marriage. Youngsters fight at two stage in this situation , the first one for achieving their goal and the other is getting control of ver their body desire and parents know very well about this what are the challenges he/she is facing now then why they are blaming that you not doing good and making us shame. If you are focused about myself then continue it from the time of birth till the puberty and try to make satisfy Oedipus / electra complex of your child but what parents do they are busy in doing jobs and enjoying their married life. If you are enjoying then how could you tell your child not to do that during his/ her biological time. If you have feeling for enjoyment then why your children can’t.
Focus on your child development by birth but not only during puberty only when he/ she do something wrong. Your children are not always responsible for unusual behaviour but you also equal partner of him.